Dragging lack of confidence in your personal and professional life?

The fact is we are creatures of habit. We tend to drag things along with us. Yes, we have learned a lesson. This is good. BUT we tend to drag the negative and emotional luggage along with us.
Their is a sentence that might seem trite…but it is powerful. And it is……
“Yesterday is history…
Tomorrow is a mystery….and today is the present.”
LIve for today, right now. Make it the best you can. Irrelevant if someone in the office was unethical about something. Take next steps to address it and use the T.L.C. method. This stands for TAKE IT….LEAVE IT….or CHANGE IT.
This is your choice. And if you just drag it with you back home and back to work, you will keep accumulating a lot of negative luggage.
Address the issue, in a mode that works for you.
If it is costing you sleep, write it down, the WHOLE issue….and SHRED IT!
That’s right you read it correctly.
This is a mental “enema”, and you need to get it out of your thoughts.
Take control of your emotions, and chose to respond not react.
You’ll feel better about yourself. Your productivity will improve. And your life will continue…because you are living in the present.

The power of “Powerful You!” women.

On September 22, I was one of the keynote speakers at the “Powerful You” 2010 Transitions program for NY & NJ.
Speaking on my keynote program called
C.H.A.N.G.E.S.
The program was focus on your business and how “change” affects your business in so many ways.
I addressed C- communication – How you handle your social media communications and marketing materials.
H. is for Health – the health of your bottom line of your business.
A. is for Attitude – staying focused with positive master mind groups.
N. is for Negativity – reading books such as “The Secret” and “The Power of Positive Thinking”. Avoid working or being exposed to negative thinking people.
G. is for Goals – Making sure that your goals are S.pecific, M.easurable, A.ction oriented, R.esults, T.ime frame for your goals.
S is for S.uccess – And that is inevitable by incorporating all of those key steps….
C.H.A.N.G.E.S.
The “Powerful You” Women’s group is a nationally based company that is growing through out the country. It incorporates Master Mind groups, Gratitude and applicable topics that help all women entrepreneurs.
The accolades I received for the rest of the day was incredible! And I am most grateful for this fascinating group of women.
Seek one out in your area…or take the next steps to starting one in your city.
It will be worth your investment of time and the paybacks will be incredible!

Confident to compelling! What a goal to achieve!

To be able to speak with such a manner that people stand when you finish…is “nirvana.” It is the ideal model that most people would have their draw drop open, if that were to happen. Well it has happened. When professional speaker Randy Gage speaks….audiences leap to their feet at the conclusion. He has mesmerized them and has had them take a “call to action” as a result of his content rich information. In fact his video’s usually open with footage of audience, after audience, after audience, literally giving him a standing ovation. Now that is compelling! Yesterday I had the incredible pleasure of meeting and working with Business professional Vicki Sullivan. She has booked speakers, worked with them and now shares her wisdom with multitudes of professionals who are eager to “sit at her feet”…and simply learn. And I intend to do so also. I have taken pride in the fact that speaking is a learned profession that has to be frequently tested, so that your learning curve continues to spiral up. At the National Speakers Association of New Jersey she did a workshop and a presentation on the technique of mastering a focal point. A marketable topic that is enticing enough for people to call or send an email. Her skills are so powerful, that even the veteran speakers felt energized! Well that is what my company Strong Incentives does. I work with people directly to minimize their fears and accelerate their learning curve so that presentations become effortless. It is possible. You may not think so…but it is. If “confidence” is the missing piece to your presentation….call…do it now. No more excuses….take control, take action and take a presence on the stage that is worthy of your knowledge!

Know your material…literally be prepared!

When presenting there can be so many variables. Cell phones ringing, people distracting your flow when you present, interruptions, people leaving to make a call. All of these components can affect the quality of your presentation. Being interrupted can upset you from feeling smooth and confident about your material. It happens to the best of us!
When you know your topic, and can pick up at any point in time (and this takes practice) you will always have a sense of credibility. People will realize if you have felt distracted and have lost your flow.
As my late uncle used to say….”Now that I was so rudely interrupted”
He may not be in your audience….but they are out there.
Confidence regarding your message, clarity and credibility will make you shine.
If you were a boy scout you would remember their motto “always be prepared”….well it is the truth. Be prepared and you will be great!