Got F.E.A.R?

Have you heard “the only thing you have to fear, is fear itself?” Well lets break this apart.
This acronym stands for F.alse E.xpectations A.ppearing R.eal.
And that is what happens when we are not sure of our own level of confidence or self doubt… when it comes to a presentation. Taking control of the situation is critically important.

As the talented Alan Weiss says….”The first sale is to yourself”….and then after that “one should always think with the 4th sale in mind.”
We tend to let this fear….and the expectations that we will screw up on all the problems that may surface; or if our nerves “win out” and a poor or simply lackluster presentation takes place. Now that would bite!
Realize that this fear is simply festering in YOUE thoughts. And the fear is growing as soon as you think of the upcoming presentation.
Take control of your situation, your belief systems and ACCEPT that your knowledge is valid. Also that you will share your wisdom, in such a way that people will recognize it…and make positive comments on it.
You practiced, and practiced, and you knew your material. You minimized and rid yourself of this f.e.a.r. and you made your presentation rock!
Dr. Milton Erickson addressed these fears and had all of his clients practice a mopdified form of N.L.P. called Neural LInguistic Programing. This technique, which requires you to repeat a positive phrased sentence and then reinforces that belief. If you do not honor that strategy you will let your fear win.
And your NOT worth that happening.

Eileen Strong is your expert in presentation skills.

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