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The Only Thing You Have To Fear Is Fear Itself!

Yes that sentence was said by the late, great Franklin D. Roosevelt at his 1st Inaugural speech.

And we WERE a country was living in fear. We had high unemployment, we had social and government and

international problems that SCARED most of us. Sounds familiar to what is going on today!

The play on words of the acronym F.E.A.R. is “False Expectations Appearing Real”

How often have you been afraid, truly afraid? Probably more than what you realize. But that is good. The experience of fear is what we learn from. And it usually was an important lesson. Whether you failed a test and didn’t get the job. Whether you failed yourself…and didn’t achieve what you were hoping to. Or whether you failed your parents, your child or someone in need.

You WILL remember that failure.

Look at how many people have failed and have given up. And now think of how many people have failed and did not give up! Thomas Edison said that “he never failed….he only learned new ways of how not to try it that way…again.”  Even after he went totally deaf, Mr. Edison would BITE as hard as he could into the phonograph, so that he could FEEL the vibration of the music! Michael Jordan said he had failed his team so many times, that he lost over 36 VERY important games and hundreds of regular games…BUT he never gave up.

You never gave up trying to learn how to ride a bike, or swim or ski or learn any new sport. And if you did….it probably haunted you. And probably still does to this day! It takes discipline, attitude and a strong belief in the most important person in your life…YOU!

In my book “Who Stole My Confidence?” 7 Rock  Solid Steps To Take Yours Back!” I discuss in detail how to pick up the pieces after you felt you had “lost them all”, and didn’t know where to go next. Remember you can lose your confidence in yourself and wallow and allow yourself to feel fearful, uncertain and not know what to do next. AND this can happen to you at any stage in life. But you can adapt.You can pick up the pieces… and you can feel more  confident….one step at a time. At my site StrongIncentives.com you can read and discover how hire me as a speaker and trainer to your teams and incredible employees on how to become more “resilient” and less fearful of what can or could go wrong!

I watched my home team Green Bay Packers take a beating on the opening night of this season….but I know  they will learn from their mistakes and apply it to their next game….and ideally WIN.

So should you! Remember the MOST important person in your life is you, and always will be. Everyone has obstacles and we all handle them differently. Think of Helen Keller, and realize nothing can or should stop you, Close your eyes, and your ears and live in her world for 90 seconds, and realize how lucky  you really are!

The power of “Powerful You!” women.

On September 22, I was one of the keynote speakers at the “Powerful You” 2010 Transitions program for NY & NJ.
Speaking on my keynote program called
C.H.A.N.G.E.S.
The program was focus on your business and how “change” affects your business in so many ways.
I addressed C- communication – How you handle your social media communications and marketing materials.
H. is for Health – the health of your bottom line of your business.
A. is for Attitude – staying focused with positive master mind groups.
N. is for Negativity – reading books such as “The Secret” and “The Power of Positive Thinking”. Avoid working or being exposed to negative thinking people.
G. is for Goals – Making sure that your goals are S.pecific, M.easurable, A.ction oriented, R.esults, T.ime frame for your goals.
S is for S.uccess – And that is inevitable by incorporating all of those key steps….
C.H.A.N.G.E.S.
The “Powerful You” Women’s group is a nationally based company that is growing through out the country. It incorporates Master Mind groups, Gratitude and applicable topics that help all women entrepreneurs.
The accolades I received for the rest of the day was incredible! And I am most grateful for this fascinating group of women.
Seek one out in your area…or take the next steps to starting one in your city.
It will be worth your investment of time and the paybacks will be incredible!

Interview with confidence!

Remember….the first sale is to yourself!
Believe in what you have to offer to a client or a company that you want to join. And believe it with rock solid confidence.
So many approach an interview with hidden apprehension. Fearful that they will not be accepted or worse yet…..completely rejected, and no follow up is required.

Keep a passion of what you want to achieve. And sell yourself with this passion everyday. Start in the morning and reinforce it during the day.
Image yourself shaking the hand of your client. Seriously DO THAT NOW!
See the contract being signed.
See that phone ringing and think of how that sentence will sound as they accept your idea…your proposal! The power of your mind continues to be the most important sales tool that you can carry with yourself at any point in time.
Research has proven this again and again.
It is written about in “The Secret” and also in “The Power of Positive Thinking”…and even more so in Napoleon Hills “Think and Grow Rich!”
It is all simply waiting to be untapped by you.
Self your skills and talents to YOURSELF first!
Do this EVERYDAY….seriously. Think of how Vince Lombardi took that average football team in Green Bay and took them to 9 championships and 2 Superbowls…all because of the way
he made them believe in themselves.
Start this week off with a positive visualization each morning… and an even more powerful verbal sentence of focus and gratitude.
Remember….as Alan Weiss always says “The first sale is to yourself!”
It’s true!

Eileen Strong

Powerful Results with StrongIncentives